“Said sorry for sharing her secret protein drink location”
Somebody · Apologize without the second half · 21 days ago
Something specific you can do today.
Not a vague wish to be kinder. One act, with the reason it lands. If the hard week belongs to someone you know, send them the page instead.
One thing, today
Send the thing that reminded you of them
A link with 'this is so you' is proof you thought about someone when they were not there. That is the whole message.
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- A friend
Answer if you want. It changes which ideas are shown first.
Tomorrow this card is Buy the last of it at the end of market day. Skipping a day leaves no gap to fill.
“A friend of mine invited me to her anniversary and I forgot to commit I felt awkward to send her a message. I finally sent her a note.”
Not this one? Three questions and we will pick, or browse the whole library.
If this one is not yours
The next act in a situation, the question that has waited longest, or a task somebody has already named.
Next in When it turns cold
Before your own, while you still have the energy for it. The person most at risk on ice is the one least able to clear it.
Clear the path next door before your own
The question that has waited longest
Asked September 2026.
Help
Support local business that maybe going out of business in tolt, carnation
From anywhere · 1 person offered · 1 place
What people wrote
A sentence from someone who did the thing.
“it finally helped get them to come out and spend time with us.”
Somebody, seattle · Ask again the person who always says no · 25 days ago
“Asked the colleague to stay and have lunch with us again..”
Somebody · Ask again the person who always says no · 25 days ago
2 chains are being passed from person to person right now, and the longest has reached 3 people.
Right about now
When it turns cold
The first proper cold week is when a set of small, ordinary jobs stop being ordinary for the people on your street who are least able to do them.
The one that matters most and is hardest to ask about. People ration heat in silence and will tell you it is fine.
Check whether the heating is actually on
Many older people ration heating in silence. Cold homes cause a large, measurable share of winter deaths.
“One less thing for my wife to do... totally worth doing this every week!!”
Where it has reached
Choose a dot to open a country, or a line to open a chain that has already left where it started.
A dot is a country. A line is a chain that left where it started. Choose one to look closer.
See what is near you instead of all of it.
If today is the wrong day
This is not a habit to keep up. Most of what is here is for a particular week in somebody’s life.
November · The ones nobody asks about
Day 1: Ask the carer before you ask about the patient
Every single conversation starts with how the ill person is doing. The carer is asked second, or not at all.
The same page next year. Nothing on it resets.
A date you already know
Keep it, and the right acts show up
A death, a new job, the weeks after an operation. The name stays on this device. A signed-in account can keep the date.
Keep a date →
Hand it to the person who needs it
Two ways, and they ask different things of the person who receives them.
Send the situation
Open the page for what they are going through and send it. No account. This site never learns who received it.
Pass on what you did
After you have done something, you can give it a name and hand the name on. Mark today’s act, and that name is on the card. Whoever does the same thing adds themselves. Nothing follows them if they do not.
There is a great deal more
There is one email a month — a themed month, a few things for the situations you care about, and one sentence somebody wrote. No images, no tracking, and a link in every edition that erases your address completely.